Friday, May 23, 2014

A parent's prayer

Love begins at home, love lives in homes, and that is why there is so much suffering 
and so much unhappiness in the world today. If we listen to Jesus, He will tell us what He said before: 'Love one another, as I have loved you.' He  has loved us through suffering, dying on the Cross for us, and so if we are to love one another, if we are to bring that love into life again, 
we have to begin at home.
-Mother Teresa


O Heavenly Father, make me a better parent. 
Teach me to understand my children, to listen patiently to what they have to say, 
and to answer all their questions kindly. Keep me from interrupting them 
or contradicting them. Make me as courteous to them as I would have them be to me.


Forbid that I should ever laugh at their mistakes or resort to shame or ridicule 
when they displease me. May I never punish them for my own selfish satisfaction 
or to show my power. Let me not tempt my children to lie or steal. And guide me
 hour by hour that I may demonstrate by all that I say and do that honesty produces happiness.


When I’m out of sorts, help me, 0 Lord, to hold my tongue.
 May I ever be mindful that my children are children
and I should not expect of them the judgments of adults.

Let me not rob them of the opportunity to wait on themselves and to make decisions.
Bless me with the bigness to grant them all their reasonable requests 
and the courage to deny them privileges I know will do them harm. 
Make me fair and just and kind and fit me, O Lord, 
to be loved and respected and imitated by my children.
Amen


By Fr. James Meena, The Word, May 1978
Peace and Goodness.

2 comments:

Unknown said...


Beautiful prayer! And beautiful children.....such smiles! Hope all is well with you and yours.

Becky

Farm-Raised said...

So eloquent. You are such a good mama!